Friday, February 29, 2008

piCs I tooK


This Wer the Pictures I took lets Start With a Sunshine...This Pic was taken from my room at my Home Town Vizag at Mornin 5.45 isnt it beauuutiful... The reflection of the sun in the water is so coool







This again is from the same place it looks like a big war Zone with all the navy ships givin their rehasal's abt the war ..




A Parrot isnt it cute i took it some wer in a temple ..there wer two a pair one flew away by the time i clicked my camera bad luck :(






Mysore Palace one place everyone likes to visit on a good Holiday located abt 3 hrs drive from Bangalore







This is in Bangalore the height of the tree still ammuses me ;) i think my height also does the same to some people ;)







Most People dint understand wat the hell is this pic ..let me explain to u it's a bonmb named atom ..i have them durin a festival named divali ...i took the pic from very near by that only the explosion is been seen here ...

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Half a Century


Gud Mornin Guys ..Today mornin wen i opened the blog i have the votin of u likin my blog ...there wer 50 votes to which people voted they like my blog and a single vote sayin not likin the blog....i am very gr8 full to u guys for appreciatin my work by votin here..and i hope u will continue visitin by blog and postin ur comments and be with me for the work i have done... in this happy moment i have done a paint for u people expressin my happiness...Thnks a Lot

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Bill Gates Daughter (exclusive pics)



This is Jennifer Katherine Gates Daughter of Bill Gates the founder of Microsoft she is age of 12 years and her dob is 26-Apr-1996 these r exclusive pictures for my blog viewers (actually i remember one of friend wen seein her )






Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Srry only a thought for today


Guys i am srry for no nice post today i am little out of mood today as of some incidents so i am postin one of my fav qoute in pictures and thought thnks

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.'

Monday, February 25, 2008

Oscars Rock Baby (80 years of the celebration people)


So here r the winners for this Year's Oscars and congratulations for the achievement

Best Picture:No Country for Old Men

Achievement in Directing:Joel & Ethan Coen (No Country for Old Men)

Best Original Screenplay:Juno

Best Adapted Screenplay:No Country for Old Men

Best Actress:Marion Cotillard La Vie En Rose

Best Actor:Daniel Day-Lewis (There Will Be Blood)

Achievement in Cinematography:There Will Be Blood

Best Film Editing: The Bourne Ultimatum

Achievement in Sound Editing: The Bourne Ultimatum

Best Foreign-Language Film: The Counterfeiters

Best Original Song: Falling Slowly Once

Achievement in Sound Mixing: The Bourne Ultimatum

Best Original Score:Atonement

Best Art Direction:Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street

Best Documentary Feature: Taxi to the Dark Side

Best Documentary Short: Freeheld

Best Supporting Actress:Tilda Swinton (Michael Clayton)

Best Animated Feature Film:Ratatouille

Achievement in Makeup: La Vie En Rose

Achievement in Costume Design: Elizabeth: The Golden Age

Best Animated Short Film: Peter & the Wolf

Best Live-Action Short Film: Le Mozart des Pickpockets (The Mozart of Pickpockets)

Best Visual Effects: The Golden Compass

Best Supporting Actor:Javier Bardem (No Country for Old Men)

give me a break(THE WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE)


Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just asyou have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or yourSister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a systemthat gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost asmuch as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cookfood at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are asto what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simplyBecause you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"

No Posts


Guys i was actually enjoyin the weekend so no posts for the past 2 days dont mind me...anyways how was ur weekend and Very Gud Mornin to u all .... and guys i for got to say pls post ur comments abt the topics i am using because i got to know u like them ..u hate them...accordin to that i can continue my posts usin high language or minimal language ...thnks

Friday, February 22, 2008

Srry


Guys and Gals i have to say something to u today its important (wat the hell how can something imp told by me ;)) ...ok jokes apart wat i am goin to say is SORRY ....hmmm u r thinkin y is he sayin a srry with out a reason ..there is a reason guys ....because of the big posts i am makin ...guys if i try to shorten the posts i make the meanin could be lost and the post could be wasted ..guys try to understand this and just make a 15 mins for me i ask only 15 mins nothin more of u r daily routine life ( i used routine because mine is borin with the same old routine things so thats the reason i opened a blog to share the things i like ..i hate ...i love... with u guys ...so dont miss understand with the lenghthy posts but just go through them to understand them ...
Thankin You ...
Yours Loving..
Hemanth.Potluri

give me a break(Why Women R so Special...............)


Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's getting late. I think I'll go to bed." She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's lunches. Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the table and started the coffee pot for rewing the next morning. She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom. She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend, addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the grocery store. She put both near her bag Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth and filed her nails. Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed." "I'm on my way," she said She put some water into the dog's dish and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and the patio light was on.
She looked in on each of the kids and turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation with the one up still doing homework. In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next day, straightened up the shoe rack She added three things to her 6 most important thin! gs to do list. She said her prayers, and visualized the accomplishment of her goals.

About that time, Dad turned off the TV and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he did..without another thought. Anything extraordinary here? Wonder why women live longer...? 'CAUSE WE ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL...... (and we can't die sooner, we still have things to do!!!!)

Thursday, February 21, 2008

తెలుగు భాషా దినోత్సవ శుభాకంక్షలు

ప్రజలారా బ్లాగర్ వాసులార నా మిత్రులారా తెలుగు భాషా దినోత్సవ శుభాకంక్షలు


....జై తెలుగు తల్లి

give me a break (Do you know your employee ?)

MD noticed a young guy leaning against the wall, doing nothing. He approached the young man and calmly said to him, How much do you earn?" The young man was quite amazed that he was asked such a personal question, he replied, none the less, "I earn $ 2 000.00 a month, Sir.Why?"Without answering, the MD took out his wallet and removed $6000.00 cash and gave it to the young man and said, "Around here I pay people for working, not for standing around looking pretty! Here is 3 months' salary, now GET OUT and don't come back". The young man turned around and was quickly out of sight.Noticing a Few onlookers, the MD said in a very upset manner, "And that applies for everybody in this company".He approached one of the onlookers and asked him, "Who 's the young man that I just fired ?" To which an amazing reply came of, "He was the pizza delivery man,Sir!

give me a break (GoodBye Letter from a Employee in Wipro)


Hi,

Every one will have certain goals and objectives to achieve in their life and I'm no exception. To pursue those goals I've decided to quit Wipro and continue the journey with another company and today is my last working day in Wipro. I would like to thank one and all for the co-operation though I must say my experience here is terrible mainly because of few persons and the working culture.

I've joined Wipro thinking of a good career ahead and was shocked to see the unprofessional working environment here. I've never come across such a working environment so far. The work place always used to remind the fish market because of termites like Raghupathy Rajeshwar Nuka, K.T.R.B Sarma and few others who liberally shout at every person, uses filthy language, crack adult jokes at the work place, openly flirts and what not they can even go to the extent of threatening people by saying they can throw them out of the company as if Wipro is their own company and can make the place a hell. And there are some people like Raj Komaravally, Hari Kumar C.K. who can give the statements like "I believe only in my managers and I don't need to meet any one below the level" and "management always supports managers". They can go the extent of giving generic statements like " in Wipro politics are more important than projects and Wipro works like this" and if you want to continue, you have to mould yourself and become dirty and unprofessional like us. It was very unfortunate that I've come across this kind of unprofessional persons here in these 8 months. The icing on the cake is Anu Pentareddy who does not even know how to behave with the resources, and never receptive and listens to the concerns of the resources and she is the resource manager for the horizontal and all she can do is to threaten the resources. And the worst part is nothing will happen and change even if you raise your concern in the so called ombudsprocess. Kudos Wipro, no one can find such a pathetic working environment like yours anywhere in the IT industry.

Anyways all said and done, people like me may not fit into this kind of working environment and my sincere suggestion to the HR is please conduct trainings in behavioral management for all the managers and to most of the persons with red and green tags. In my sojourn here I'm fortunate enough to work with Srikanth Natarajan, Shyam Challapalli, Rakesh Kotla and few of my development team who all are very supportive.

Thanks!
Ram

Gud Mornin People


"Friends are like melons; shall I tell you why? To find one good you must try hundreds."
"Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same."
Gud Mornin & Have a Gud Day

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Give me a Break (50th post)

Thnks for comin to my blog and visitin it and make me write more things abt the world and part of myself in it ...
Guys i was thinkin wat to post for the 50th one ...thinkin made me think y to think that much on a topic y dont i post something abt love which i dint fall till now (if i had fallen i wont be writin this blog writing now because gals wont let peopl critize them just kiddin ;) )
One of my friend has recently fallen in love i asked him wat is the meanin of love he said actually he dint reply anything to me .... so here is wat i think .....If any body asked about love we think love of boy about the Girl or vise versa... but the word LOVE have very powrful meaning. it apply to all we love god, we love Nature, we love childrens, we love our brother and sisters, etc so love is the state of mind of a human or evan animals which makes him to have close relationship with other which he realy love. we can give different meaning for word love one best meaning we can give is
L - Long
o - original
v - valuable
e - emotion
L =Life became so beautiful from the day you took my heart away.
O =Once you were a stranger and now you are my soul.
V =Very special are those stoler smiles & glances.
E =Each moment spent wid u has given sweet memories for the life time 2 me.
L = Lack of sorrow
O = ocean of tears
V= valley of death
E = end of life
L=Library of Opportunities
O=Orchard of Apples
V=Valley of Temptations
E=Eternal in depth
L=Loss
O=Of
V=Valuable
E=Education
So Guys its upto u to decide to go with which one i would take the last one for now if i come across true love then i may change my meanin ;)

Gud Afternoon Budies(My Friend Sowmya gave me This wen i was angry)




Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Gud Mornin Everybody


Oh, the duck says "Quack",
and the cow says "Moo",
the old red rooster says"Cock-a-doodle-doo".
The sheep says "Baa",
and the cat says "Meow",
but I say "Good Morning
when I see you!

Monday, February 18, 2008

give me a break (Celebration Means)


Celebration means...
Four friends.
raining outside.
Four glasses of Tea.
Celebration means...
Hundred bucks of petrol.
A rusty old bike.
And an open road.
Celebration means...
A hostel Tea.
A hostel room.
12 a.m.
Celebration means...
3 old friends.
3 separate cities.
3 coffee mugs.
1 internet messenger.
Celebration means...
Rain on a hot tin roof.
Pakodas deep-frying.
Neighbours dropping in.
A party.
Celebration means...
You and mom.
A summer night.
A bottle of coconut oil.
A head massage.
You can spend
Hundreds on birthdays,
Thousands on festivals,
Lakhs on weddings,
but to celebrate
all you have to do is spend your Time with your loved ones.

Gud Mornin Friends (This was sent by one of my friend so cute naaa)




give me a break (just for fun)

In a poor zoo of India, a lion was frustrated as he was offered not morethan 1 kg meat a day.
The lion thought its prayers were answered when one US Zoo Manager visitedthe zoo and requested the zoo management to shift the lion to the US Zoo.
The lion was so happy and started thinking of a central A/cenvironment, agoat or two every day and a US Green Card also.
On its first day after arrival, the lion was offered a big bag, sealedvery nicely for breakfast.The lion opened it quickly but was shocked to see that it contained fewbananas.
Then the lion thought that may be they cared too much for him as they wereworried about his stomach as he had recently shifted from India.
The next day the same thing happened. On the third day again the same foodbag of bananas was delivered.
The lion was so furious, it stopped the delivery boy and blasted at him,'Don't you know I am the lion...king of the Jungle..., what's wrong withyour management?, what nonsense is this?, why are you deliveringbananas tome?'
The delivery boy politely said, 'Sir, I know you are the king of the junglebut ..did you know that you have been brought here on a monkey's visa!!!
Better to be a Lion in India than a Monkey elsewhere!!! !!

Thursday, February 14, 2008

I got u a smart LOVE LETTER


There's a couple who love each other deeply.
The girl's father does'nt like the boy and want them 2 stop their relationship. So......the boy wrote this letter to the girl.....he knows that the girl's father will definitely read this letter.
1 The great love that I have for you
2 is gone, and I find my dislike for you
3 grows everyday. When I see you,
4 I do not even like your face;
5 the one thing that I want to do is to
6 look at other girls. I never wanted to
7 marry you. Our last conversation
8 was very boring and has not
9 made me look forward to seeing you again.
10 You think only of yourself.
11 If we were married, I know that I would find
12 life very difficult, and I would have no
13 pleasure in living with you. I have a heart
14 to give, but it is not something that
15 I want to give to you. No one is more
16 foolish and selfish than you, and you are not
17 able to take care for me and help me
18 I sincerely want you to understand that
19 I speak the truth. You will do me a favor
20 if you think this is the end. Do not try
21 to answer this. Your letters are full of
22 things that do not interest me. You have no
23 true love for me. Good-bye ! Believe me,
24 I do not care for you. Please do not think that
25 I am still your boyfriend.
However, before handing over the letter to the girl, the boy told the girl to "READ BETWEEN THE LINES.Meaning only to read 1,3,5,7,9,11,13.....etc (odd number)
So please try reading it again !

give me a break (Valentine's Day Massacre in 1929)


Valentine's Day is the day to celebrate love. But if we move back to 1929, we find the horrific incident of St Valentines day massacre.
The St Valentine's Day massacre is the name given to the shooting of seven people as part of a Prohibition Era conflict between two powerful criminal gangs in Chicago, Illinois, One gang was called the South Side Italian gang led by Al 'Scarface' Capone and the other was the North Side Irish/German gang led by Geroge 'Bugs' Moran.
Deadbodies of seven well-dressed men were found in evening of February 14, 1929 inside the S.M.C. Cartage Co. garage in North Chicago. Those men were riddled with bullets and according to the the police they were shot when they faced the wall with their back towards their executioner. Except for Dr. RH. Schwimmer, all the other killed men were mobsters and belonged to the group of Bugs Moran. Capone wanted to eliminate his main rival Bugs and so he schemed a plan with his followers to lure the men of Bugs into the garage.
The victims of the Valentines Day Massacre 1929, were identified as James Clark (AKA Albert Kachellek), Frank Gusenberg, Peter Gusenberg, Adam Heyer, John May, Reinhart Schwimmer, and Al Weinshank, who it is believed was the man mistaken for Moran by the lookouts.
There had been some unanswered questions of this incident of Valentines Day murders, but definitely the prime suspect had been Capone. The bloodbath made on that garage became part of the history of Valentine's Day as the infamous St. Valentine's Day massacre.
We pray that we never will hear such bloodbath on any of the Valentine's Day ever.

Happy Valentines Day Guys(ప్రేమికుల రోజు శుభాకాంక్షలు)


Today the most celebrated day for lovers ..... may all the wishes of the lovers come true ... so lets discuss something abt how this all started
Valentine's Day, though one of the most popular event without any religious undertone, has received the brickbats from many anti-valentine groups. Valentine's day may be criticized for various reasons but I like this event. I agree 365 days or rather 366 days (in case of a leap year) should be Valentine's day as love is always in the air but what's wrong in celebrating just one day in a special way? We have so many days dedicated to so many things, why not a day dedicated to love, the most precious of anything in the world. I think most of you know the history of Valentine's Day but still I feel like sharing it with you all.
The most well known legend is that there was a priest St. Valentine, the priest in the third century Rome, defied the rule of Roman Emperor Claudius Two and brought the wrath of the emperor upon him. Claudius Two outlawed marriage for young men so that they can serve the emperor's army better. But St. Valentine secretly helped the young couples to get married which led to his imprisonment and order of his death by the Emperor. Another story is of the unrequited love of the priest St. Valentine who fall in love with the jailer's daughter during the imprisonment. Before his death he wrote a letter to his love and at then end of letter wrote "From your Valentine". Although there is no conclusive evidence to decide about the authenticity of the stories but the myths certainly emphasizes St. Valentine as a heroic, sympathetic and above all a romantic figure

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

give me a break (Freaky Gals durin Valentine's Day)


Guys today i am goin to specify some freaky things which happen during this time of the year (.i.e) durin the period of Valentine's Day ...Gals do all sort of crazy stuff which makes boys freak out...Top 3 things which makes boys loose their mind is ...

1.When a gal does not accept him as a Valentine
Gals do this on purposefully some times they want to test wat extent the guy can go to achieve her as a Valentine( Boys dont loose ur cool wen a Gal says no ..just relax take a chill pill if she does not want u then leave it go for a Gal who wants u more then anything) It's a fashion for gals to say wen they r asked something it makes them feel like they r some leader or something (I dont exactly know it) These gals want the boys to plead them to be their Valentine ( this is bull shit boys relax no need to plead if u truly love her she will come to u if not take it easy )

2.When u ask her to be ur Valentine and she says she already has one
Boys go crazy wen they hear this type of answer ...they start lossin their confidence sometime..they do weird stuff like shoutin on the other guy who already asked his gal out ( They be frank they start scoldin him in such a way that if he really listens to those words he will commit suicide immediately hahah :) )

3.Gals start callin u brother (this is the craziest thing which gals always do )
U think the gal is close to u... she is like a cool friend to u ( better say best friend) and the next wen the valentine day approaches the shitest thing happen's like they start callin u bro ( fuck wat the hell ) ...this is wat happenin from the past few years wen the gal things there might be a risk of u proposin to her then boom she does weird things like callin u bro ...Tellin she is like ur sis (all kinds of shity stuff)

Monday, February 11, 2008

give me a break (Testimonial )


This is the fav word for everyone these days in social networkin ... if u write a testimonial abt someone in ur friend list ...let me explain .... a testimonial actually decribes the behaviour of the person to u ..it describes how the person's attitude is to u... it describes the closeness towards the person ... it describes how much care the person u write cares abt u ... lately i got a testimonial which i liiked very much the testimonial described to me how much the person who wrote it really understood me thnks for the testi pandu ( i used ur dp pic srry for that)....
This is the Testi i got...
wat to tell abt dis guy?........he is one of ma best frnds in orkut... he is taller dan melikes tweety bird a lot.. i think he has around 300 or 400 pics of tweety bird and also a coin collector......he has around 1875 old coins with him.... and also 10rs coin.......... can any one beleive dis???? but still it is true.... one can easily piss him off by kidding..... im one such person who always kids with him and he often gets angry on me.... very caring. he cares too much for his frnd...doesnt like posh galsgot gud attitude.... i wanna thank orkut bcoz i met dis guy thru orkut.....his attitude made me to write testimonial,but never mind to write one abt such a gud frnd... ALL D BEST FOR UR FUTURE .....KEEP ROCKING..........

Thursday, February 7, 2008

test for index dont mind seeing this

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Monday, February 4, 2008

Give me a break (Mis-understanding)



Misunderstandin
hahahah that word it self says that ur misunderstandin me ...(hehehe just kiddin guys)
So anyone here understands wat the word actually says miss( means gal ) understandin (means understands u ) hahahaha (kiddin dude )
okok lets come to the point before u kick me for my pranks

there is a caption i read it some wer dont remember but u know it maid be fall and laugh the caption is

The Proper basis for marriage is mutual Misunderstanding

so wat do u really think mis-understandin is this word is oftenly used these days u can observe in the world around u if u just check it out ...this misunderstandin between friends,lovers..virtual friends (ie people who meet through virtual networkin not in the real world) ....

Let me explain with some examples people these days r not mis-understnadin the friendship to be fake ...but mostly because there r some plastic's(freinds who cannot be trusted) these days ...people r in a false mind ...they r getin frustrated with some situations may be with friends lovers or anybody ...in this time of period wen they r in a frustration they get to misunderstand everything and everybody even if u say something is true they dont agree with ur decision...so misunderstand is caused by mainly false friendship anger and more over frustration ....

So guys r u in the list of misunderstandin any of ur close friends (not friends who r plastic u can always avoid them also if u would like to) I am there in the list of missunderstandin friends who r close sometimes had to say my srry for that otherwise may loose some of the close frinds ...so r u into srry or say go to hell with them ..

Saturday, February 2, 2008

give me a break (Trust)


So guys today lets discuss abt trust …. Ok I ask u one thing before goin into details how many people do u trust for ur life ..and how many people trust u for their life ..? This is a simple question but very difficult to ans as I to don’t know the ans to myself (let me say the reason also most people I talk seem to trust me wen I talk to them and some people don’t seem to even believe me (but I am always truthful to everyone as per my knowledge and takin till now) ) (Let me tell one more thing also never trust people who act as if they r trustin u ..because these people r the most people who let u down)


How does anyone actually trust me or u or vice versa how do u trust them …. For all the experiences I got from the beloved world I live in and the lessons also which I got from it tell me to be truth to anyone even if it is ur enemy because being truth keeps some people at least near to u (they will be counted as ur true friends who believe u in any means they can bet their life on ur word)

Recently an incident happen to me as I was waitin for a friend of mine to come on line to chat wen atlast she came as usual I was chatin and after sometime I said tat I was waitin for u for a long (as I was waitin for only her ) then she said really is that true (here ends the story she thought I was bluffin (I hate to lie even if I had to die for that )) so one word u loose confidence in ur self u feel as if some burden has fallen upon u and yest an another incident happen with another I was into an argument into some matter(as I usually go into argument always because no two persons thought's r the same ) I asked her wat do u think of me ? Do u think that I am also like the people who try to flirt gals ( I even said road side cheap romeo) she replied I don’t know (wat the hell does this ans mean r u not sure abt ur friend don’t u have trust in him if u have trust u say no if u don’t have u say yes ) I felt very much for that ans wat does it mean yes... No... I am not sure .. Wat would u think that u r friend does not have even a small trust on u (literally I was very hurt yest I dint sleep for much time for that ans )( I have a small prob I think much of even small things even related to me or to moi friends I care to much of everthing)

So people trust someone if they r truthful to u if only u feel so otherwise leave them ( I trust most of my friends (these days I am freakin out because of some incidents like getin pissed off of some situations may be I am became a person just opp to me and stop trustin helpin and even takin to people ) to my life can u ?